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Hello, I’m 23 year old and live in Aus, to understand my problem i believe i have to tell you the whole story, I met this girl online on Latin American Cupid last February from Peru, she lives in peru, and her and the mother was suppose to come over in 3 months (i buy the tickets), but suddenly her father after 3 months told me and her not to speak to each other anymore, he said “that i was a kidnapper”, we argued but we decided to continue this relationship in secret, then i find out she is suppose to be marrying someone because her father’s side is indian and her mother italian and that they have arranged marriages, and that is part of the reason why this happened, ok well she said she wasn’t going to go with him and leave the family if she had to because she loved me.

in the 4 months region i find out that the photos she sent me of her are not her at all, i was quite upset, and told her to send me her real photos, which I thought she did because i was upset.

anyways we were suppose to meet in another 3 months and my plans are to talk to her father there with her after the 3rd day i meet her, anyways so it’s 6 months but her mother died in a car crash, so she said not to come and give it a few more months, and i can definitely respect and understand that,

here I find out that a photo she sent me was not her after i made her promise to tell me if it was her,
again another figth but it seems that this time i got the real photos, i don’t even care about how she looks, i didn’t find out they where the real photos till December anyway. but i would like to have a picture of her and not someone else.

so 2 months later her father finds out about us through her msn profile, and he emails me and says not to come till this november, and if my GF and the person she is suppose to marry wants to break it off that i can then see her, they talked about it and decided to break it off, he told me i could go in February because she has to finish her studies which finnish in December, im thinking well ok so I’ll wait till Febuary, I mean ok there is nothing wrong with the father wanting her to finnish her studies, now she finished and now he wants her to do a post graduate and want me to wait till September,

And im fighting with my parent’s because they think she is a lyre and that she’s not real, they say it better to find someone who is real or who won’t make you wait, that anyone would have time, even a week, i spoke to her on the microphone many times and it always the same person,

I sent an email yesterday saying that September would be the last time, and “it is no longer if i love you i will wait” like the father said in an email he sent me, “its now if you love me you will not make me wait past September, and that if your not prepared to leave your family en September she should tell me now because i know there going to come with something else as an excuse.”

also a note on my side something i didn’t say to her till yesterday, I have a disease, i have copd, chronic cough meaning i cough in the morning and night a little, like a smoker cough quick and short, not the dying smoker cough, got it from a bad flu.

so i have two questions,

1. what should i do, am i doing the right thing, i do like this girl and have fun with her that is obvious.

2. if i decide to go through with this, and wait till september, is there anything that i could do to avoid the conversation of finding someone new with my parents, i live with them as they are italian and like italian mothers my mother is always wanting me to find a girl or in this case terminate the relationship, i am very close to my parent especially my mother and don’t want to damage it, so if i can avoid hurting her i will, because she is only looking out for me, saying i cannot spend the rest of my life in front of a computer.

should i somehow create a fake gf for a few months, or something easier maybe… actually there isn’t anything easy about this, haha.

Why does cupid only shoot the males with his love arrows? Do you know or remember any goddesses or females he shot?

Thanks in advance!!